Like many of you, I was glued to the television to watch the President’s Cup. It was the third straight President’s Cup that Woods won the cup-clinching match — all three with Fred Couples as the captain. Golf looks easy when the pros play but it’s so hard.
I missed the woman who streaked across the course naked, I don’t think she was worried about winning or losing. A little levity can’t hurt anything, can it? I think Fred Couples was the only one who laughed.
I think most of us take life too seriously, myself included.I have friends who worry about everything. One of my friends just started school and worry’s about taking tests that haven’t been scheduled. Instead of preparing for them she worries about them.
Yes, I understand if you’re a playing a competitive sport you have to win or they won’t let you play. If you’re in business, you have to outwit your competitors or you won’t be in business. In the game of life, you can still play, even if you don’t win.
I believe it does matter if you win or lose. Yes it’s great if you have fun in the process but winning is more fun than losing; don’t you think? In order to win you have to work hard, be uncomfortable and push yourself. That doesn’t guarantee winning but it’s part of achieving. I grew up in a time when you were taught to compete and winning was important. Unfortunately winning was everything. I took me years to realize I didn’t need to win everything. I found out winning doesn’t guarantee friends in fact it alienated many people.
If you decide to compete, there’s always the possibility you won’t win. Losing is the chance you take but that’s life. When people choose not to compete, they lose out on the opportunities to test themselves. They don’t get to take chances and shine.
Winning is the end result of a competition. If the only thing we remember is winning, what about all the time spent in between?
Life is just a series of events; we probably spend more time practices and preparing than we do competing. Suppose we never get to win? Does that mean our life has been wasted?
Winning doesn’t always mean being first.
You can win by setting and beating your own goals. It’s called setting your own pace and playing your own game. Winning can mean just trying. I love running 5 K races and it’s been 10 years since I’ve taken first place. Now it’s just fun to run.
What a better world we would have if we set goals together and decide we could all win. Wouldn’t it be great if we could agree on a common goal for the world?
Yes the sun will come up if you lose,it just might not feel as bright. In the long run, does it really matter? As they say, “pick your battles.”
Lisbeth helps individuals and businesses win at their own game. Do you need a coach or a speaker? Lisbeth can be reached at Lcalandrino@nycap.rr.com.