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Whether You Win or Lose, the Sun Will Rise

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Who knows what tomorrow will bring?

Whether you win or lose, the sun will shine.

Like many of you, I was glued to the television to watch the President’s Cup. It was the third straight President’s Cup that Woods won the cup-clinching match — all three with Fred Couples as the captain. Golf looks easy when the pros play but it’s so hard.

I missed the woman who streaked across the course naked, I don’t think she was  worried about winning or losing. A little levity can’t hurt anything, can it? I think Fred Couples was the only one who laughed.

I think most of us take life too seriously, myself included.I have friends who worry about everything. One of my friends just started school and worry’s about taking tests that haven’t been scheduled. Instead of preparing for them she worries about them.

Yes, I understand if you’re a playing a competitive sport  you have to win or they won’t let you play. If you’re in business, you have to outwit your competitors or you won’t be in business. In the game of life, you can still play, even if you don’t win.

I believe it does matter if you win or lose. Yes it’s great if you have fun in the process but winning is more fun than losing; don’t you think? In order to win you have to work hard, be uncomfortable and push yourself. That doesn’t guarantee winning but it’s part of achieving.  I grew up in a time when you were taught to compete and winning was important. Unfortunately winning was everything.  I took me years to realize I didn’t need to win everything. I found out winning doesn’t guarantee friends in fact it alienated many people.

If you decide to compete, there’s always the possibility  you won’t win. Losing  is the chance you take but that’s life. When people choose not to compete, they lose out on the opportunities to test themselves. They don’t get to take chances and shine.

Winning is the end result of a competition. If the only thing we remember is winning, what about all the time spent in between?

Life is just a series of events; we probably spend more time practices and preparing than we do competing.  Suppose we never get to win? Does that mean our life has been wasted?

We must always have the will to win.

Winning doesn’t always mean  being first.

You can win by setting and beating your own goals. It’s called setting your own pace and playing your own game. Winning can mean just trying. I love running 5 K races and it’s been 10 years since I’ve taken first place. Now it’s just fun to run.

What a better world we would have if we set goals together and decide we could all win. Wouldn’t it be great if we could agree on a common goal for the world?

Yes the sun will come up if you lose,it just might not feel as bright. In the long run, does it really matter? As they say, “pick your battles.”

Lisbeth helps individuals and businesses win at their own game. Do you need a coach or a speaker? Lisbeth can be reached at Lcalandrino@nycap.rr.com.

 

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Lisbeth Calandrino is an award winning trainer, entrepreneur, and blogger and has spent over twenty years developing custom tailored marketing and customer service programs for businesses. Her recently published book, Red Hot Customer Service, 35 Sizzling Ways to Heat up Your Business and Ignite Your Sales defines the steps necessary to build a competitive advantage and turn great companies into unforgettable or red hot companies. Lisbeth admits that much of her knowledge came from her Italian grandfather who despite very little formal education and a limited English vocabulary, managed to became both successful and wealthy. Lisbeth has wonderful stories about Grandpa DiBiagio’s and her time spent learning how to managing Grandpa’s fruit stand. Because of Lisbeth’s experience as a business owner, having been the managing partner and owner of 7 furniture and carpet stores for 14 years, she is able to bring her extensive business knowledge and experience to all of her clients. Lisbeth’s awards include executive of the year award from the International Executive Association, Albany chapter (a business networking group) and first place honors in an international marketing contest for alternative medicine. A two time cancer survivor, she has spoken extensively about her experiences of cancer, offering words of comfort and inspiration. As an activist, Lisbeth has initiated and contributed to many charitable causes. She has worked with at-risk youth, spoken out against injustice and advocated to and helped to build resources for women. As a presenter, Lisbeth Calandrino is highly motivational, information-rich, and very entertaining. Her acute business sense, contagious enthusiasm, positive energy and fun sense of humor make her a dynamic presenter. Lisbeth is a member of New York, Historic Albany Foundation, educational director of Business Referrals Networking Group and member of the board of directors of the Animal Protective Foundation of Scotia, New York.

2 Comments

  1. Mikeal Jensen October 10, 2013 at 10:02 am

    LOVE this thought Liz! I think we all get too caught up in self defeat when we compare ourselves to others “wins”. What are MY wins? Great contemplation! MNj

  2. Lisbeth Calandrino October 30, 2013 at 10:24 am

    Hi Mikeal, it’s always fine to see you. I am astounded by your artistic ability and Crossville is so lucky to have you. I go through and read comments again and I love the one that you wrote. I like your statement, what our wins. Yes it seems like this should be our goal. See you again soon. Lisbeth

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